Rules of Attraction
Originally published in June 2008 in Canadian Home and Country
If it’s pink, floral, distressed and not nailed down, chances are this Toronto collector has the perfect place for it.
There’s no use searching for an ordinary mug inside Barbie Brandes’s charmingly crooked kitchen cupboards. As far as she’s concerned, every day’s an exquisite teacup day, and no occasion is too mundane for an elaborate cereal bowl, pretty cake stand or beautiful antique plate. “I get that attitude from my grandmother,” says the 37-year-old real estate agent. “She never saved her good china just for special occasions; to her, every day was special.”
In just two years, Barbie has transformed her one-bedroom rental apartment—located on the third floor of an old New York-style four-story walkup in Toronto’s Forest Hill Village—from drab to darling. “A lot of people who visit me for the first time say I live in a doll’s house,” says Barbie with a smile. She then admits, “It is perfect and very precious …but it’s me!”
Barbie’s affinity for all things floral, pastel and shabby chic is evidenced everywhere in her apartment. Her favourite pieces — painted tables, dressers and chairs — have all been distressed to a patina-rich surface, either by the hands of time or purchased as is from a store.
Not surprisingly, flea market finds, vintage pieces and treasured hand-me-downs all figure highly in Barbie’s home. She’ll give any store with a décor section a chance — it’s the thrill of the hunt and that magical sense of destiny in every unexpected treasure that keeps her quest going.
“You don’t have to go to the poshest antiques shops to find the best things,” she states, citing amazing scores from just doing the rounds at local flea markets and weekend trips to HomeSense and Canadian Tire, as well as free picking parties in the attics of friends and family. “Even so, when I go to high-end stores that sell items I love but could never afford, I always come away with something tiny—like an egg cup or a single pressed-glass tumbler—and I’m just as thrilled as I would be had I gone in to buy a chandelier!”
The key is patience. “I don’t make impulse buys,” attests Barbie. “Ever.” In fact, most of the time she leaves markets and antiques stores empty-handed. “You have to be willing to walk away from the first, second, fifth or sixth thing that catches you eye before you find the perfect thing that’s meant for you,” she says. You also have to be willing to bargain. “You’d be surprised at the discounts I’ve gotten, all because I asked. It lets me savour the process long after I take my treasure home.”
Barbie’s favourite antiques markets
- Aberfoyle Antique Market
1-877-763-1077, www.aberfoyle-antiques.com, Open Sundays, April to October.
“They don’t make deliveries, so if you’re looking for furniture bring a big car.”
- 400 Flea Market
705-436-6222, Open weekends, year round.
“China, glass and teacups galore, plus a good selection of painted step stools.”
- Cookstown Antique and outdoor market
www.cookstownantiquemarket.com, Open 362 days a year.
“Room after room filled with vintage chandeliers, painted farmhouse chairs and coloured glass.
- Heritage Antique Market at Bayview Village
Runs seven times a year.
“I found my Lucite teacup display holders here! It’s also stuffed with silver, vintage linens and china.”
- Sherway Gardens Antique Sale
613-521-1970, www.asinter.com, Runs once or twice a year.
“Miles of vendors selling everything you can imagine.”
Barbie’s prized finds
Lucky loot that was worth the wait
- Sterling Silver Rose Bowl
“I picked it up at the Antique Market in Bayview Village. Filled with flowers, it’s the most beautiful sight!”
- Round Needle Point Rug
“I got this seven-foot oval rug on eBay for $220 from a dealer in Manhattan. It was the inspiration for the entire room!”
- Pink-painted blanket box
“I found this at My Back Shed Too and turned it into a sweater box. It’s at the foot of my bed and lined in vintage pink floral wallpaper.”
- White Painted Harvest Table
“This distressed table, only $200 at My Back Shed, is the perfect backdrop for my vintage placemats and scalloped-edged plates.”
- Framed “Barbie” print
“When I saw the print at Nestings Kids in Toronto I had to have it! The light green background and hits of pink in her floral tea dress match the décor in my bedroom.”
Best budget tips
Barbie dishes her best advice for achieving shabby chic on a budget
- Become a garbage picker: “Drive through upscale neighbourhoods on garbage day and keep your eyes open for slightly damaged or well-loved pieces of furniture that you can re-paint,
- Bring cash and don’t be afraid to bargain: “I’m always surprised at the number of discounts I’m offered, all because I simply asked.”
- Pack your eco shopping bags for trips to the attics of your grandmother, aunt or mom, then fill’er up: “Generous family members may have china, silver and needlepoint treasures they’re more than ready to pass on to you.”
- Go to retail stores you wouldn’t think of at first after visiting boutique for ideas and inspiration. “Some of my best tôle (painted tin) and linens were from Winners. And the $10 lace café curtains in my kitchen were a score from Canadian Tire!”
- Be prepared to leave with nothing: “Pace yourself, and don’t buy for the sake of buying. The search is half the fun.”